Reasons people prefer not to talk about
The first reason is large families. It is hard for parents to feed and educate eight to ten children, so they try to marry a girl off as early as possible: it helps the family survive, and the bride even brings a dowry — the "dairi".
The second reason is that teenagers often simply do not realize the consequences of their actions. In the villages there are no cinemas, clubs or opportunities to grow; life comes down to planting maize and waiting for the harvest, while a curious young mind wants more.
To this are added cases of abuse that are not spoken about out loud, and the problem of hidden sex tourism in Malindi.
The scale of hidden sex tourism in Malindi has been reported more than once by journalists at
BBC and
The Elephant. For us it is one more reason to stand beside these teenagers.